“Come, I will show you the Bride, the wife of the Lamb.”
Revelation 21:9 (ESV)
First, allow me to give credit where it is due. Today’s article is inspired by something I read at www.dougwils.com – a blog by Pastor Doug Wilson.
We have been focusing of late on the Sermon on the Mount, especially the call of Christ to righteousness in regards to sexual purity and faithfulness in marriage. The sermons have been upfront and candid; this is not the occasion for “beating around the bush.” Jesus says some things quite clearly, and we must attend to His word through repentance and obedience if we are to be his disciples.
But as I was reading Wilson’s blog this week, something hit me that I felt worth sharing, that maybe I’ve not emphasized enough. When we talk of purity and faithfulness in marriage, it has a direct impact on our relationships here and now. But Jesus is also talking about our relationship with Him. Jesus came looking for a bride, and he finds his bride in the most unworthy candidates.
We read in John 4 of how Jesus met the Samaritan woman at the well. We know about the conversation, the offer of the “Water of Life,” the revelation of the woman’s marital history. But what is often missed here is the historical significance of Jesus meeting this woman at a well. Consider the following “Encounters at the Well” stories from the Old Testament. In Genesis, when Abraham’s servant is sent to find a wife for Isaac, he first meets her at the well (Gen 24:11-21). When Jacob flees from Esau, he meets his future wife, Rachel, at the well (Gen 29:1-12). When Moses left Egypt, he met his wife at a well (Exo. 2:16-22). So when in John we find Jesus at the well, and not just any well, but Jacob’s well (John 4:6), we cannot miss the significance. This is why the disciples were so astonished when they returned from the grocery store (John 4:8). No one said it, but they were thinking “What are you looking for?” and “Why were you talking with her?” They knew what was happening: Jesus was looking for a bride.
The woman at the well exemplified the bride for whom Christ was coming. She must be a sinner, she must be unworthy, because this is precisely who Jesus came to save. “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners” (Mark 2:17)
At the well, when Jesus found a bride, we found salvation. Paul makes this clear in Ephesians 5, when he writes, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish” (Eph. 5:25–27)
This is the gospel of Jacob’s Well. While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us, so that he might present us, the church, to himself as his spotless bride, purified and adorned by His grace and love.
Doug Wilson writes,
In the Christian church today, there are many [Christians] who are tormented by their sexual past. They know, academically, that they are forgiven, but they have trouble rejoicing in that forgiveness. This is not because of anything in the Scriptures, but rather because of many false assumptions current in the church. And these false assumptions betray our misunderstanding of the nature of grace. We constantly want to earn, to have pride of place. But always remember, when the Son of God came to earth to find a bride for Himself, the woman that His Father had chosen for Him, the choice – when it was revealed – astounded the censorious and the prune-faces alike. The Father and Son and the Spirit are altogether holy, and so the woman who is chosen must become holy. But the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit are also full of grace, and the woman who was chosen was called out from her idols, her lovers, her past, her immoralities. And the Son loved her, and loves her still.
Friends, you and I are the woman at the well. We are the Magdalene. We are the woman caught in adultery. We are the demon possessed, the leprous, the blind and the lame, the tax collectors, even the Pharisees. We are sinners in need of grace. And oh!, what grace we have found in Christ our Lord, that we should be healed, forgiven, set free, and called to be His cherished bride.